Hello
I am glad that you found this site as it is very helpful. I have had lymphedema in both legs for about 30 years, I only met someone a few years ago that has lymph in her arms. it was nice to be able to talk to someone else who understands and shares the same problem. You are far from alone having this problem.
I also miss having feminine attractive shoes and clothes. I always wear pants which I have to have specially made. When I have to dress a little more formal I wear long dresses. It is difficult to be sure but I can accept these situations after so many years.
I hope you will feel comfortable communicating with other people with lymphedema. You have been through alot so feel good about yourself and try to have a positive attitude.
Welcome... Remember we are here for you.
Joanne